Some love stories are written slowly, over time, fifteen years to be exact, and Jaclyn and DJ’s is one of them. From the moment they met at a pool party through mutual friends, Jaclyn knew there was something special. She lit up the moment she saw DJ and told her friend, “That is the most perfect man I’ve ever seen.” At the time, neither of them was looking for love. But fate had its own plans. A few days later, they found themselves out to dinner with friends again. This time, they couldn’t stop talking. From that point on, they were inseparable. City dates, long car rides in DJ’s Saleen, jet ski adventures in Michigan City, and cozy camping trips with family, they built a life together full of memories, laughter, and unwavering love. That brings us to their rustic wedding at the Barn.
The Proposal: Love, Pina Coladas, and a Candlelit Surprise
After a dreamy vacation to the Florida Keys filled with sunsets, salty air, and Pina Coladas, Jaclyn returned home to some tough personal news. DJ, sensing her sadness, kept reminding her, “At the end of this week, you’ll be the happiest girl in the world.” She didn’t ask questions, but she should have.
He planned a surprise dinner at Bavette’s, or so she thought. When traffic hit, Jaclyn offered to call the restaurant, DJ panicked. That’s when she suspected something was up. In a quick pivot, he told her they were going to The Signature Room at the 95th Floor instead. Jaclyn had never been, and was thrilled.
What happened next was straight out of a fairytale. At a dimly lit table overlooking the sparkling Chicago skyline, DJ waited until dessert, just as Jaclyn was mid-bite of mashed potatoes (LOL), to stand up, walk around the table, and drop to one knee. With a ring from their family jeweler in a glowing box, he asked her to be his wife. The whole restaurant erupted in applause, and champagne toasts followed. But he wasn’t done. Back at their friend’s condo, a surprise party with flowers, balloons, cake, and all their friends awaited them. It was magical.
The Wedding Day: Rustic Romance with a Touch of Elegance
Jaclyn and DJ knew they wanted a venue that reflected their love for nature, something rustic yet refined, filled with character, class, and open skies. The moment they walked into The Barn at Cottonwood Farms, they knew they were home. Built in just 10 days by the Amish, the barn is a work of art. The crystal Italian chandelier hanging in the center of the room was a showstopper, and the mix of wood, land, and moody lighting created the perfect atmosphere for their dream day.
The outdoor grounds gave guests plenty to explore, and the cozy fire pits added the perfect touch of ambiance. But it wasn’t just the beauty of the place, it was the kindness and heart of the venue owner and coordinator that sealed the deal. Jaclyn said it best: “She was a dream, so loving and helpful. She made us feel like family.”
A Moment They’ll Never Forget
Jaclyn had something truly special planned for DJ, something she kept a secret for months. Just before she walked down the aisle, she had a voice recording play over the speakers. Her voice. Her words. Her heart. There wasn’t a dry eye in the room, and DJ was completely caught off guard in the best way.
“Walking down that aisle after 15 years, finally joining DJ at the altar, was a moment I’ll never forget,” Jaclyn shared. “Looking into his eyes, remembering everything we’ve been through together, it felt like time stood still.”
Navigating Grief, Stress, and Grace
Planning a wedding is no small feat, but Jaclyn and DJ’s journey came with even heavier challenges. With DJ traveling for work in the months leading up to the wedding, Jaclyn carried much of the planning solo. On top of that, her family experienced not one, not two, but three tragic losses, including one the day before the wedding.
But through every tear, every appointment, every moment of doubt, they leaned on each other. The love and support from DJ, their families, and friends made the day not only possible, but beautiful. “God’s timing is perfect,” Jaclyn said. “The love we felt on our wedding day got us through everything.”
Advice for Other Couples
To every future bride, Jaclyn offers this:
“Despite any setbacks or unexpected complications, have faith in your partner. Stick together. Try to remain calm, listen, and don’t lose sight of why you’re getting married. It’s not about perfection, it’s about love. I promise, everything will fall into place.”
Looking Ahead: A Life of Adventure & Love
Instead of a traditional honeymoon, Jaclyn and DJ are waiting until October, when they’ll pack up a huge RV and road trip out West to St. George, Utah. Think glamping, adventure, and stargazing with their beloved German Shepherd, Carlos, by their side.
They’re both successful business owners, currently in the thick of their busy season, but they’re dreaming big: a farmhouse, wide open land, and building a family of their own. One filled with more laughter, love, and even more adventure.
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